Actress Foluke Daramola has taken to her Instagram page to narrate her own rape experience following the allegation of rape levied against the senior pastor of COZA, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by Busola Dakolo.
The actress shared that while Busola was allegedly raped by her pastor, she was raped by her own neighbour.
What she wrote below:
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I have been there… it’s a peculiar story that happened to me, I have spoken about it, granted interview about it, I even have a foundation on rape and Abuse. It was when I was 17 as well, not a pastor though but our tenant We went to the police station and my shaming started from there. “Wetin u wear?! how e take do am?! u sure say u never do am before?!! And blah blah blah I had to hide in shame, like my wound alone, carry the guilt of believing I caused it to happen to me, l was in my own world for years… through my university days… I grew up a frigid woman, sex became a big problem for me when I find myself in the room with a man I would be terrified… When I became divorced my Male friend advised a psychiatrist! Was I MAD??!!! My doctor says I had to speak about it then I will be free of guilt and nightmares I was confused I eventually did and I had my release and I became a better person. I did my punch interview a lot of people felt I shouldn’t have spoken about it nobody cared to ask y I spoke about it(oh well maybe a few people did) it has always been about what the society will feel, or say… Such a sad thing for the defenseless victim to be turned to the PARIAH CRIMINAL ITS REALLY SO UNFAIR AND UNFORTUNATE #istandwithbusoladakolo #istandagainstrape